Love at First Sight

What is LOVE? I tried my best to understand this typical word but never got the exact definition or meaning of LOVE. If you will ask someone who is in love, he will definitely give a long description (or will say a dialogue from a movie). The description will be about care, freindship, spending time, happiness etc. If all such things define love, WHAT IS LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT?

It is said that "Men fall in love with their eyes while women fall in love with their ears" and that's true too. That's why we have "Love at first sight". It is mostly occured with guyz and thats why we have movie dialogues like "तुमसे तो मुझे पहली बार देखते ही प्यार हो गया था " etc said by the actor. But just think for a sec How can you fall in love with a person whom you dnt even know. Besides you dnt even know her name but still use very very heavy words to describe your love and called it to be LOve at first sight. To prove the love they do very very stupid things. Firstly, they try their best to know her name (which they obviously dnt know coz it is LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT). Secondly, try to find out her address and contact numbers. Thirdly, try to impress her. Now guyz know almost everything about the girl (name and address: thats enough, coz it is love at first site). But the girls doesn't even know that such a guy do exist in this world(Not in everycase). Some guys show their guts and after the process of impressing they just go to the girl and propose her. Some of them go to park, some to jail and some back to homw for new search. The guyz with broken heart feel pain for sometime but within a week they find their next "LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT".

In whole process of love at first site very few go for friendship, very very few show care and hardly anyone spend time with her, still they find it to be a SOLID LOVE. How could it be a solid love when you dont even know about her/his qualities, hobbies, habits, features etc. So, my advice is "whenever you fall in love at first sight just have a second look".

So, the question "Whit is LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT?" "How does it start?" "IS EXTERNAL BEAUTY ENOUGH TO FALL IN LOVE?"

Rang De Basanti

A movie which influenced a great part of our youth population BUT for atmost 2 or 3 dayz only. After that everyone got back to life & began to enjoy it in its most traditional form like we all do. The worse thing about it is to abuse others for any nuisance. The thing for which most of the ill words are used is "OUR GOVERNMENT". But the question is that are we doing anything from our side? Lets consider a most common example for it. We always abuse government for not cleaning the roads, localities etc. But do we cooperate in that? We don't even use dustbins put by the government in localities and through all garbage on road. This is the way we are helping our government or in a way our country to get developed. Everyone is ready to abuse but none is ready to take a initial step to remove it. Everyone wants their government to do it but none is ready to cooperate it. Government is opening schools to make everyone educated but teachers in that school join it because they want a job with comfort where they should not be given much work. In government firms employees just take rest on chair.
The young generation is looking for this kinda comfort and nothing. Accordingly Life is just to have a comfortable job atleast with a package of 6 lac per annum and nothing else, to abuse others for any mishappening, to abuse government, to critcise others, etc.

My College Life

Sabke pc aur lan k tar

hostel ki wo chat aur mere yar,

wo raton ko jagna,

aur milke khelna age of empire,

wo sweep khelna lohani k yehan jake,

wo discus karna harne k bad,

pahuchna clg hmesha late,

wo kehna mam ka getout 4m d clas,

wo bahar jake hmesha kehna,

iska to dimag hi h kharab,

wo uthkr sham ko,

sandy k yehan jake,

wo chai peena samose k saaath.

Bas yadein yadein reh jati h

kuch choti choti batein reh jati h.

Wo raton ko ghumna,

wo dhundhna muvi sabke pas.

Wo subah der se uthna

aur karna nasta sabke bad,

wo dil mai sochna fifa m aj hara de,

karna planin CS ki roz yar.

Har ek ka apna pyar,

wo niharna usko dur se hi yar.

Karwana topup cell mai,

karna msg unhe bar bar.

Fir wo sochna bas aj keh dale,

wo kehna sabka sab baketi h yar.

Bas yadein yadein reh jati h

kuch choti choti batein reh jati h.

Aisa yado ka mausm chala bhulta hi nahi dil mera.

Kya hai ye zindagi

kabhi hasta hua bachpan, kabhi marta hua budhapa hai ye zindagi

kabhi khilkhilati hasi, kabhi ek mayus chehra hai ye zindagi

kabhi kisi se dosti, kabhi kisi se takrar hai ye zindagi

kabhi kisi ki chahat, kabhi kisi ka pyar hai ye zindagi

kabhi apno se ladai, kabhi apno ka pyar hai ye zindagi

kabhi ek umeed, kabhi ek har hai ye zindagi

kabhi ek kurbani, kabhi ek jeet hai ye zindaagi

fir bhi ek sawaal aakhir kya hai ye zindagi